You’ve done the work.
You’ve put in the hours.
You know your horse. You know your event.
You’ve put in the hours.
You know your horse. You know your event.
And then… your name gets called.
Your heart starts pounding. Your hands feel different. Your thoughts get loud.
And suddenly, you don’t feel like the same athlete you were in practice.
And suddenly, you don’t feel like the same athlete you were in practice.
Here’s the truth most athletes don’t hear:
Nothing has gone wrong.
Your brain is doing exactly what it’s designed to do.
Your brain is doing exactly what it’s designed to do.
What’s Actually Happening in Your Brain
When you’re about to compete, your brain doesn’t see a rodeo arena…
It sees risk.
Your brain’s primary job is to keep you safe, not help you win. So when you step into a high-pressure moment, it flips on your internal alarm system—your fight-or-flight response.
That’s when:
- Your heart rate increases
- Your breathing gets shallow
- Your muscles tighten
- Your thoughts speed up
This is your brain saying:
“This matters. Pay attention.”
“This matters. Pay attention.”
But here’s where it gets tricky…
Your brain doesn’t always know the difference between:
- A real threat
- And a meaningful opportunity
So it reacts to both the same way.
Why Nerves Feel So Strong in Competition (But Not Practice)
In practice, there’s less pressure. Less meaning. Less perceived risk.
In competition?
- There are eyes on you
- There’s a result that “counts”
- There’s something to gain… or lose
Your brain interprets that as higher stakes, which means a stronger response.
That’s why you might feel:
- Calm and confident at home
- Tight and unsure in the arena
It’s not a skill issue.
It’s a state issue.
It’s a state issue.
The Mistake Most Athletes Make
Most athletes try to get rid of the nerves.
They think:
- “I need to calm down”
- “I shouldn’t feel this way”
- “Why am I so nervous?”
But when you fight your nerves, you actually make them louder.
Because now your brain is dealing with:
- The pressure of competition
- The pressure of trying not to feel pressure
That’s a losing cycle.
What To Do Instead
Instead of trying to eliminate nerves…
Learn how to work with your brain.
1. Reframe What You’re Feeling
That feeling in your body?
It’s not weakness. It’s activation.
Tell yourself:
- “My body is getting me ready.”
- “This means I care.”
- “I know how to handle this.”
The goal isn’t to be calm like you’re on the couch.
The goal is to be steady inside the intensity.
2. Regulate Before You Perform
You can’t think your way out of a nervous system response.
You have to physically reset it.
You have to physically reset it.
This is where tools like your SAM Reset come in:
- Breathe
- Affirm
- Breathe
- Reset word
When you control your breath, you send a signal back to your brain:
“I’m safe. I’ve got this.”
“I’m safe. I’ve got this.”
And your body starts to follow.
3. Give Your Brain Something to Do
A busy brain is a scattered brain.
Instead of letting your thoughts run wild, anchor your focus:
- One cue
- One feel
- One job
Example:
- “See my first barrel.”
- “Stay centered.”
- “Smooth and forward.”
Simple. Clear. Repeatable.
4. Train This Like a Skill
Here’s what most athletes miss:
You don’t rise to the occasion.
You fall to the level of your training.
You fall to the level of your training.
If you only practice riding…
but never practice your mindset…
but never practice your mindset…
You’re leaving your performance up to chance.
Mental regulation is a skill.
And like any skill—it can be trained.
And like any skill—it can be trained.
The Bottom Line
Nerves before competition don’t mean you’re not ready.
They mean:
- You care
- You’re stepping into something that matters
- Your brain is doing its job
The athletes who perform at a high level aren’t the ones who feel nothing…
They’re the ones who know how to feel it—and stay in control anyway.
If This Hit Home…
This is exactly the work I do with rodeo athletes.
Learning how your brain works is one thing.
Learning how to train it to work for you in the arena is another.
Learning how to train it to work for you in the arena is another.
If you’re tired of:
- Practicing great but competing tight
- Letting nerves run the show
- Feeling like your performance doesn’t match your ability
Let’s change that.
👉 Connect with me on Instagram or reach out about coaching.
Because when you know better, you ride different.
Because when you know better, you ride different.
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